The conflict disclosure 场景学习单

A promising invitation conflicts with an earlier commitment that the decision-maker has not disclosed to either side.

一个诱人的邀请与先前承诺发生冲突，而决策者尚未向任何一方披露。

COLLEAGUE

Decide what future you want first; the older promise can be explained after the opportunity is secure.

先决定你想要什么未来；等机会稳妥后再解释旧承诺。

ADVISER

A choice stops being private when someone else carries its hidden cost.

当别人承担选择的隐藏代价时，这个选择就不再只是私事。

ADVISER

List every commitment, affected person, deadline, fact not yet shared, promise that cannot coexist, available option, and whose informed choice is being delayed.

列出每项承诺、受影响的人、截止时间、尚未共享的事实、无法同时存在的承诺、可选方案，以及谁的知情选择正被拖延。

DECISION-MAKER

I will pause the new agreement and disclose the conflict before asking anyone for another promise.

我会暂停新协议，并在要求任何人作出新承诺前披露冲突。

The opportunity becomes less certain, but the people involved regain the right to choose with full information.

机会变得不再确定，但相关人重新获得了在完整信息下选择的权利。