The commitment exit conversation 场景学习单

A couple meets in a neutral place after one partner has repeatedly postponed a promised conversation.

一对伴侣在中立地点见面，其中一方此前多次推迟一场承诺进行的谈话。

PARTNER

Let me wait until my new plans are secure. Telling the truth now would only create pain.

让我等到新安排稳定后再说。现在讲真话只会制造痛苦。

COUNSELOR

A difficult truth delivered early leaves more choices than a comfortable lie delivered late.

艰难的事实越早说出，留下的选择就越多；舒服的谎言拖到最后只会减少选择。

COUNSELOR

State the decision without blame, name the shared obligations it changes and ask what immediate safety or practical support is needed.

不归咎地说明决定，指出它改变了哪些共同义务，并询问当下需要哪些安全或实际支持。

PARTNER

We will agree on housing, money, belongings and a contact schedule before either of us makes new promises.

在任何一方作出新承诺前，我们会就住房、金钱、物品和联络安排达成一致。

They write a short transition plan and choose separate support people for the next conversation.

两人写下简短的过渡计划，并分别选择支持者参与下一次谈话。